February 2011
[L]ife [I]n My [E]yes... Part 2
Psychiatrist: “Wow I’m speechless right now. And thank you for the compliment I think,” she said as she wrote something else on her pad. “So let me recap on the situation, you have a sex problem and you want to find a way to get rid of your problem. Or at least be able to control your urges so you won’t have the need to seek sex from anyone other than your boyfriend.”
Me: “Yes, but I think I...
[L]ife [I]n My [E]yes
Me: “Being the youngest, everyone around me has their opinions on how I should live my life including my so-called boyfriend. I call him that because our relationship has become rocky ever since I came to college. I think most of our problems come from him being so insecure but others including him think it is mostly my fault, which it could be because of my secret. I currently live with my best...
Floetry: Lights Off by Jae Chartaye
I was just in bed thinking about the whole idea of relationships and my personal experiences.
Relationship… hmm. Sounds good.
My last SERIOUS one was 2years ago.Yet and still. That relationship 2 years ago affected my entire mindset .People always say, “Don’t compare your future “partner” to your past one”. Honestly, I think that is a bunch of BS.I do...
Black Love
Since it is Black History Month and Valentine’s Day I decided to show some love to some famous black married couples, real and television characters.
NewOld Love
Heart beating fast
I found someone that understands me at last
Butterflies taking flight
Everything about us feels so right
Palms perspiring
The way you make me feel is so aspiring
And a big smile on my face
Awaiting your warm embrace
This is the feeling I get from every time you walk into the room
Never a dull day, never a sense of gloom
Sometimes I can’t believe it’s you
Who would’ve known it...
The Waiting Game Part 2
From my experiences, compromise and sacrifice is important for both people to learn, practice and use. When giving too much or not enough become a problem, what is there to do? What things should be given and taken? I know this is when communication comes into play but how much talking should you do before you give up. These are things that goes on during “The Waiting Game” part 2.
The Waiting Game- Part 1
“Good things comes to those who wait,” is what the older folks would tell you when you are being impatient right? Well how long are you supposed to wait when it comes to relationships? Do you wait until you both are ready or find someone that is willing to go with along with your plans right away?
What are your time limits for dating? Making it “official”? Moving in together? Meeting the family?...
Love, Experiences and Goals
Being at the age of getting to my career and establishing for my future, there are some things I have heard are hard to balance and the main things are Love and Careers. My questions are: Is there a way to balance love and achieving goals? Will your work interfere with you finding love or will your love interrupt you finishing your career? Does anyone have any experiences with balancing a...
Greetings
Welcome family, friends, tweeters, facebookers & random guest,
To my family and friends, I have finally created a blog. You all know this has been something that I have talked about for a long time and I have found the little time and effort to do it. I need you all to help liven this blog with all the comments and even topics. I know most of you have will have a lot to say about the topics...